5 Budget-Friendly Outdoor Activities for Kids – Fun and Affordable

Parenting in 2025: Hot Mess or Blessed?

Let’s be real—parenting in 2025 feels like a constant juggling act between keeping our kids alive, helping them become decent humans, and trying to decode the latest slang (what even is a Skibidi Toilet? And when did “Rizz” become a thing?). I’m a girl mom, and yet somehow, I’m now being called “bro” on the regular. The strangest part? I still respond. I’ve officially become Bro Mom.

But seriously, it’s a lot. Between school, home, and trying to balance screen time, it can feel like we're barely keeping up. If my kids could live on their iPads, they absolutely would—and if I’m honest, I catch myself doom-scrolling right next to them. Where’s my screen time limit?

We do our best, though. In our house, we have some boundaries in place to help get the kids off their screens and outside to literally touch grass. Arts and crafts, outdoor adventures, and even short walks make a difference. But not every day is picture-perfect. There are plenty of times when I let them veg out on electronics because this mama is drained. And that’s okay.

I’ve been working on taking just 30 minutes every few days to check in with myself—whether that’s meditating, journaling, or simply reflecting on what went well and where I can do better. My daughters are 8 and 10, and they’re already starting to become more independent, a little sassier, and a lot less interested in hanging out with their “Cringe” mom. It’s wild how quickly they go from needing you every second to barely glancing up from their devices.

That’s why I’ve been focusing on finding simple, low-cost ways to spend real time together—nothing too basic, but nothing over the top either. Just meaningful, screen-free moments we can share before they’re off and running toward the teen years. Here are a few of our favorites lately:

1. Neighborhood Walks & Ice Cream Chats

One of the easiest (and cheapest) ways we’ve found to connect is by taking short walks to our local convenience store. We grab some ice cream cones and enjoy the spring weather. The kids weren’t super excited at first, but once we got going, they relaxed and even started having fun. Sometimes, it’s not really about the activity—it’s about showing up and being present.

And honestly, it doesn’t have to be about ice cream or even the store. It can be a walk to anywhere your kids might be interested in—like a nearby park, a cool mural, a little free library, or even just a neighborhood block they haven’t explored yet. If you live in a busier area where walking isn’t easy or safe, you can always hop in the car and drive somewhere with sidewalks or trails. Having a destination—especially one with a little treat or surprise at the end—can help get the kids excited and turn a simple walk into a mini adventure.

2. Explore with a State Parks Pass

For just $30 a year, our Washington State Parks pass has been a total lifesaver. We’ve gone waterfall hunting, explored old military bunkers, and taken quiet walks through nature trails—no screens, no pressure, just fresh air and real conversation. It’s one of the most peaceful (and affordable) ways we’ve found to reconnect with the kids and ourselves.

If you're not in Washington, definitely check your local state parks system—many offer annual passes or even free entrance days throughout the year. Some states allow you to “check out” a day-use pass for free from your local library! State parks are such a hidden gem when it comes to budget-friendly family fun. Whether it’s hiking, skipping rocks by a river, spotting wildlife, or just letting your kids run free on a trail, it’s an easy way to create lasting memories without spending much at all.

3. Playground Time After Hours

Turns out, our school’s playground is open in the evenings. We’ve been heading there after dinner, letting the kids show off their favorite recess games. Our oldest taught us how to play her version of four square (apparently, the rules have changed since I was in school!). It’s simple, but hearing their stories about school and laughing together makes it priceless.

If you haven’t already, check to see if your local school playground is open after hours—many are available for community use when school isn’t in session. We’ve found that school playgrounds are sometimes less crowded than public parks, and because they’re maintained regularly, the equipment is often in better shape too. It’s a great, safe option for letting kids burn off energy while sneaking in some extra quality time together.

4. Backyard Campfire Vibes

On a one-income budget, one of our favorite ways to spend time together is around our little backyard fire pit. We roast hot dogs, tell ghost stories (send help—I’m terrible at them), and unwind as the sun goes down. There’s something about the crackle of the fire, the cool evening air, and the sounds of the night—crickets chirping, maybe even an owl in the distance—that makes everything feel a little more magical.

The kids usually end up bouncing on the trampoline while my husband and I steal a few peaceful minutes to ourselves by the fire. Sometimes we go all out and make s’mores, but even just roasting marshmallows feels special. It’s not fancy, but it’s meaningful—slow, simple family time that doesn’t cost much at all.

We use a wood-burning fire pit (hose nearby, always!), but if you’re in an area where that’s tricky, a gas fire pit is a great alternative. It’s easy to turn off when you're done, and while it doesn’t give the full campfire experience, it still creates a cozy atmosphere for making memories together.

5. Fishing, Clamming & Crabbing Adventures

Living near the coast means we’ve got some fun outdoor options. Whether we’re fishing, digging for clams, or checking under rocks for tiny crabs, it’s a great way to get outside and unplug together. You don’t need to be a pro (I’m definitely not), and it doesn’t really matter if we catch anything—it’s all about the experience, the quiet moments, and the joy of being together.

Even if you don’t live near the ocean, there are still tons of great spots to fish in landlocked states—think rivers, lakes, ponds, or local docks. Some places even have stocked fishing areas perfect for beginners or kids just learning. And remember, you don’t have to keep what you catch—catch-and-release is always an option if you’re just there for the fun.

One of our favorite things to do, especially with older kids, is nighttime squidding. It’s peaceful, a little mysterious, and the perfect setting for cool conversations under the stars—about life, dreams, and yep… even aliens. If you know a few constellations like the Big Dipper, Little Dipper, or Orion’s Belt, point them out! It’s surprisingly captivating for kids, and who knows—they might even remember those same stars when they’re grown.

No matter what kind of day you’ve had—chaotic, calm, or somewhere in between—just know you’re not alone. Parenting in 2025 is wild. But if we can find little ways to slow down, get outside, and make a few memories, then I’d say we’re doing something right.

Until next time, keep glowing one day at a time ✨
— From one "Bro Mom" to another